APRIL 3, 2024
If life just doesn't feel quite right atm, you'll want to read this
The world has a way of making you feel like there's only one "right" way to live life.
Especially on social media.
Depending on who you follow, you'll be led to believe that you're sacrificing your entire life's happiness unless you're doing what THEY are doing – whether it's traveling the world, building a business or anything in between.
But just like the traditional corporate path isn't right for everyone, neither is entrepreneurship, nor is being a parent, a digital nomad, an expat – you name it.
Living life on your terms means just that – your terms. It means getting in touch with your own values, your strengths, your ambitions.
It means creating a life (and work) that aligns with those, rather than trying to fit into a mold.
It can look a million different ways, and it can change.
So if you have a sense that life just doesn't feel right, even though it looks like it at surface-level – you’ll want to grab a cup of tea and dig into this 👇
I can’t help anyone create a meaningful, fulfilling life or business without considering values.
They are at the very heart of what most consider ‘purpose’.
Many people think values are just a few pretty words with good intentions, like ‘kindness’ or ‘honesty’.
But they are so much more.
Your values are the guiding principles for your life. Essentially, they answer the question "What's most important to me?”.
When your life aligns with your values, it feels GREAT.
When it isn’t aligned, it feels a little dull at best, seriously unsatisfying and unfulfilling at worst.
Yet, SO many people have never ever truly considered their own values.
And then what happens?
They fill the void by living out the values of others.
They fall into the “here’s what I SHOULD do” trap.
Truly being aligned with your own values can be a very challenging task in a world where you are raised to believe that there is one "right" way to live and succeed.
Now listen – your values are always shaped by a wild combination of society's norms, your parents' expectations, the media, culture, your peers and your sense of self – that’s totally normal.
But don’t make the biggest mistake of not listening to what our own sense of self is saying.
Your values are an essential starting point to meaningful goal setting, simpler decision-making, powerful boundaries, your best work and – most importantly – mental peace.
Once you see it, you will not be able to unsee how values show up in almost everything you experience.
(Literally just a few days ago a client said to me how she sees it everywhere now, and how so many things in her life make sense to her now that didn’t before.)
"Okay great Charlotte, but how do I figure out my values?"
I’m glad you asked. (You didn’t think I’d leave you hanging, right?)
First, you need to create stillness.
And you need to allow the discomfort that will arise when you don’t have an immediate answer. That doesn’t mean you don’t have a purpose, or that you don’t have your own set of values – it just means that you’ve never seriously considered this question before.
And then, I have a (free) worksheet for you here.
That’s just a sincere thank you for being here 💛
Because one of my core values is impact, and I know just how much of an impact living in line with your values can make for you.
Rooting for you,
Charlotte
P.S. Whenever you’re ready, here's how I can support you:
1. Book a 1:1 Power Hour with me – a one-time intensive coaching call where we'll develop a clear path forward and address the mindset shifts necessary for your success. Learn more about what we can work on and book your slot here.
2. Join me for 1:1 business coaching. Working with me isn't just about scaling your business or brand, it's about scaling you. I’ve helped countless clients navigate their path with clarity, ease and confidence. Don't settle for the hustle-norm, and redefine success with balance at its heart. Apply here.
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